Amazing 6-Letter Borderline Word
Published: Mon, 10/06/08
Hi ,
I hope all is going well for you today.
Today I want to share with you the
AMAZING 6-letter word that can change
your life today.
You've probably not even thought about it.
You probably don't even think about it in terms
of being a borderline personality disorder supporter
word.
You probably don't even think it applies to you.
You probably don't think you are this word.
What is it?
S T R O N G
That's it. Six letters. And it DOES apply to you.
Or at least it should. It needs to, anyway.
If you are a supporter of a loved one with borderline
personality disorder, you MUST be strong.
Think about a tree.
It doesn't bend with the wind.
Storms can come against it, and it still stands strong.
No matter what circumstances surround that tree, it still
stands strong.
YOU have to be like that tree!
YOU have to stand STRONG!
I know what I'm asking you to do isn't easy (I
didn't say it would be - I just said it's something
you have to do).
In my main course and resource below, I discuss the
many different borderline acting out behaviors that I know
you have to live with. I'm not saying I'm unsympathetic
to your situation. Far from it.
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http://www.borderlinecentral.com/explainingborderline/
I know you go through a lot of pain on a daily basis.
Which is why I say you must be
S T R O N G
in order to deal with that pain, in order to deal with a
loved one who has borderline personality disorder.
Borderline personality disorder is one of the worst
disorders to have to live with, because you never know
what your loved one is going to do, or how they're going
to act towards you.
It's terrible to have to live with that kind of inconsistency.
That's why you have to be like that tree, no matter what the
circumstances that surround you.
That's why you MUST be S T R O N G.
Six letters that can mean the difference between being a
victim and being an individual that can stand the winds of
torment, criticism, humiliation, rage, etc., that come
against you sometimes.
You have the ability within you to stand against your loved
one and their treatment of you.
You can't control their behavior, because you can't control
them, so don't even try - it will just make things worse
for you.
Have you ever heard the expression, "Life is 1% what happens
to you, and 99% your reaction to it?"
Well, it's true in this case.
Although you can't control what your loved one does, you
CAN control your reaction to it.
That's when you have to be S T R O N G.
Keep your self-esteem intact.
Remember that you are NOT the one with borderline
personality disorder.
Try to remember how your loved one is when they are not
acting out.
Remember why you care about them in the first place.
Try not to aggravate their "triggers" (without walking around
on eggshells all the time).
Do things that make YOU feel good.
Have outside contacts (maybe even something of a social
life?).
And always remember the tree.
Be... S T R O N G !!!
Your Friend,
Dave
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